Fear not (yuck yuck), I don't for a second think that my "troubles" travelling are more important than her "troubles" taking care of kids. I am doing my best to let her complain and not personalize or make her feel like she can't complain. I am not going to let her do a core dump on me though. I'm happy to listen, but it needs to come from a place of friendship and not sniping. That I won't tolerate.
Thanks for the vote of confidence, I'm doing my best.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
