H coming today, what do I do when he asks how I am

[chaflo]

I dont know your hole story as I have been away from this site in a long time. We all have our days where we are not as strong. I am sure you are a beautiful, smart, and even "sexy" woman and you will NOT stay alone even if you do have 3 kids! It takes more time, yet if you do decide not to stick around waiting for him to snap out of it, dont settle for anything but the best as you deserve the best! Trust me, a few weeks back my ex came to bring the girls and his jaw dropped to the floor!! No he is not back nor is he planning on returning, but knowing that I am feeling great about myself makes him think I am sure about what he did by leaving! Hang in there, draw yourself a nice warm bubble bath once the kids are in bed and enjoy a nice big glass of OJ as you sit and remind yourself how wonderful you are and how much you are worth!