So ya went back and read my thread. I thought slipping it in on the bottom would get past ya.
I know what you are saying also. I think that is where we may be right now. Like her taking time off with no pay from work. In the past I would have said "No I'll be alright you go to work I'll get a ride" even though I would rally like her to be there. That is a problem we both have. During one of our conversations a few months back. She told me about the first week we brought my son home form the hospital. There was a luncheon I was invited to at work. I asked her if she was alright and if I could go she said yes. NOW 10 years latter I found out that she really didn't want me to go that she was scared to be left alone with the baby. (Her first). So we both have to learn to say what we really want and not what we think the other person wants to hear.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
