I'm sorry that you are going through this because it is hard...it's the unknown...it's the what-ifs. There are no guarantees in life. Anyone can cheat...and a lot do. I am only speaking from my own sitch. I was willing to give my H a second chance because I was standing behind my wedding vows of through better or worse. If there weren't any marriage vows, I would have never stuck this out but my sitch is very crazy. Don't sell yourself short because you are afraid you won't find someone else. Maybe things will work out for you and your gf. In the meantime, work on yourself...be the best man you can be...be it for yourself. I wish you luck...this is a bumpy road...but it will make you a stronger, better person.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
