Tiny Ray of whatever...

[NMHurting]

I have no idea how much weight I've lost. But I can tell you I haven't lost it the right way. Since this ordeal started i've gone down 3 notches in my belts.

[789]

Ah taking the make him jealous way to see if it works.

[sadhearted]

If it would work I'd do it. Probably backfire on me though. He'll see I've moved on and be glad cause that's what he told me I'm supposed to do.

Maybe as he's walking out the door one of you could slap him in the head.

[789]

I have thought about it, wondered if I could get a female friend that does not know my wife to be seen with me to see if that gets any good reactions. Just can't do it. It is not me, and she also knows it.

[sadhearted]

Yeah he seems to think that if I were really good friends with a guy and was always hanging out with him he wouldn't mind. Never been able to test that theory because I haven't worked the last 9 out of 10 years. Don't have many friends. I know when he's always hanging out with one woman I tend to not like it. And I KNOW he wouldn't either. I saw how he was when we first got together and I talked to the guys at work (we worked at the same place).

I just don't know if he'd care now. Makes me wonder though.

[789]

Not something you would want to test right now I would think.

[sadhearted]

Well no... He'd think I'd actually moved on.