Sorry to hear your H has signed a lease. If it's any consolation, I'm finding it easier to not see my W at all than have some minimal contact. It has lifted a lot of the stress and control from me that I was unaware I was under. Perhaps the same will be true for you - there will be some upsides too.
Hang in there.
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)