I understand the badboy, farm boy. My H was the badboy cowboy. BTDT
I'm not necessarily saying "my way or the highway," but you haven't had any sort of talk any time recently and neither of you know what the other wants or is thinking is going on here. I understand that you need and want to compromise, but I also know you aren't enjoying the roommate behavior either. That's all I'm saying.
I'm just glad you are feeling better about yourself and that's what's important anyway. We all need to get to that place we we like ourselves for us and not like ourselves for our partnership/marriage or whatever.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
