Thanks for the kind words Heather. Yes, keeping busy keeps my mind off the M issues to a degree. Some days are better than others. Getting along great and all but..... Well, you know the rest. As for scheduling some sex into these vacations, nope. These are family trips. Kids lying 5 feet away in the next double bed type trips. BUT we did have sex last week while away for a long weekend wedding trip so.... It could be worse.