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#1143089 07/25/07 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted By: JazzzGtr
Eew. Financial disclosure? Yuck.
Financial, witness list, etc. Hell her lawyers version even wanted a medical release....my lawyer said "not a chance"


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NMHurting #1143098 07/25/07 08:52 PM
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Witness list, whats that for?


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789 #1143103 07/25/07 08:57 PM
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Character witness', shrinks, anybody that can relate to proper custody of the children.


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4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped
4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love
"If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
NMHurting #1143127 07/25/07 09:14 PM
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She going to fight for full custody, not be a real mom and do it right?


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789 #1143131 07/25/07 09:17 PM
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Oh she offered me like a 90/10 custody..but wanted almost 3 times what the state guideline is for child support at the same time.

Sadly it's all about money to her. The OM is over at her house EVERY day. He comes over for dinner EVERY night. When he's there...my kids are virtually ignored.

I have asked for basically 60/40. She works back half of the week and I work front half. So that way when we are on our "weekend" we have the kids. Even the kids have told me they want to live with me part time.

She is still fighing it.


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2 Children (D12, S15)
9/20/05 - Seperated
4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped
4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love
"If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
NMHurting #1143135 07/25/07 09:19 PM
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That is the one positive that if we get divorced, she wants it to stay the way we have it now. I have our son probably closer to 60% of the time, so I will not argue with her over this one.


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789 #1143136 07/25/07 09:20 PM
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All I want is my kids fair time man...they're all I have.


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4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped
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NMHurting #1143142 07/25/07 09:22 PM
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Are your kids not old enough to tell a judge what THEY want? Then the judge would take that into consideration.


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sadhearted #1143149 07/25/07 09:24 PM
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One is and one isn't. Age of self representation is 14 in my state. My son is 15. My daughter is 12.


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4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped
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NMHurting #1143156 07/25/07 09:28 PM
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Ah. Well you have at least one that can voice their opinion.


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