I totally understand the "losing yourself" bit. I think that's the basis of DB'ing is getting *US* *OURSELVES* back and then we will be ok no matter what happens and be a better person for it and most likely our spouse will like it better too -- that's who they fell in love w/ after all. Back before we all got married, we could have lived w/o spouse, but after awhile, that's not necessarily the case anymore.
Don't turn into a Don Juan now, Sir
Hey cades,
I am not going to say my way or the highway, marriage is a compromise. Give and take. It's just that I have been giving and not taking.
Husband
Both of you remember I am on a roll right now. All could change. After all I am changing.
P.S cades, Sorry about the Mu Mu. I picture Delia like mary Ann on giligans island. Don't quite have a picture in my mind yet of yoyo and olive.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
