Originally Posted By: theoden
Husband,

Uhhh...why do you want to have a relationship talk after surgery?

And please don't read a letter to her.

It sounds too serious.

Regarding your "bad-boy" theory. I'll send you an e-book that will encourage this.

The idea is that alpha male, leading, confident, playful, bad-boy behavior will push her attraction buttons.

I'll email it to you. He also has a helpful newsletter.

--Theoden


Hey Theo,

Was typing while you were posting. I agree with both of you. My W is sitting pretty now. I DON"T want to force a decision but I do need to give her a little nudge. And Cades there is a "bad boy" theory. NOT the A$$ hole theory.
People used to not dare me to do things because I would do them. I met her and she was all upper class and I was a farm boy. I cleaned up my act to her upper class level but that is not why she was attracted to me. She was attracted to the farm boy who people didn’t dare. Now there is always the monkey wrench that she may have wanted to "get back" at her XBF.

Husband

Last edited by husband; 07/25/07 08:13 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know