Ok, I had told him to do a few things when I was mad. First off, we bought him a new car about two years ago. His credit is bad and he couldn't get the loan and so I put it in my name. I told him he either needed to get a loan in his name only or I would sell the car. I can't make that payment if I am by myself and he has a history of not paying bills so I didn't want my credit ruined. Deep down I didn't think he would be able to get the loan, and then he would need me. Well, apparently he did get the loan. Next I told him to get the cell phone in his name. Well, he just called and said he had called them and all they needed to change it was authorization from me.
He is doing all these things to cut himself off from me. We have no kids, so I guess no ties other than financially. Well, he is taking care of the finacial ties, and I know I told him to do it, I just didn't think he would do it so quickly. I know in my heart that he is making a mistake. I think he has the sam unrealistic expectations about being single that he had when he came back from Iraq. He just wants what is going to make him happy for the moment and screw everybody that gets hurt in the meantime.