well, i guess its time to start acting like he claims he wants, then. no more letting him do whatever he feels like, i guess. no more "spanks", and definately nothing "more".
That's the traditional wisdom, anyways.
stay strong, take care of yourself
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
