I was going to comment on that in Hey's thread, but didn't want to hijack. I thought about it and I guess my reasons would be as follows:

1. In my sitch, I wanted to prove that I could be the person/wife/lover/friend that H wanted/needed. I knew deep down that I had not been being that person. I knew I had not been happy and therefore was not doing anything to *help* him to be happy. I HAD become the "angry, bitter & tired" person he saw when he looked at me and I wanted to change that, not just for him, but for me.
2. the boys
3. scared of being alone/single parent/lonely

Last edited by Cadesmom34; 07/25/07 06:06 PM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10