He signed a lease on an apartment yesterday and plans to start moving on Saturday. I got a little misty and he said "What? Did you think I would chicken out?" I said no, just that him signing a lease makes it more real.
That is actually what prompted the R talk. And how he didn't think he would change his mind (about divorcing eventually) but he was open to it [changing his mind.] Even after saying that, he gave me a good swat on the rear and said I needed "spanks". (That's our flirty, play thing.) ??????? I said, "Dude, I don't get you-- you say you have to go and then wanna give me spanks???" Him "Well..I just wanted to."
Even this morning he was snuggling me. But he is absolutely dead set that he is leaving. No ifs, ands or buts and he doesn't hold out much hope that we will be reconciling.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
