There's nothing wrong with your thoughts. I agree. It wasn't going on while she was still with you so that's good. And now even though your married you are seperated. I asked my SIL the other night shouldn't I have a right to know if he's with someone else. She told me biblically yes but otherwise no because we are seperated. I've always said even if he had an A I wouldn't dump my marriage. To him that's the one thing he could do to make me call it quits. So IF he did it that would why.
Some people are willing to get over an A and some aren't. If you're one that can that's great. If not there's nothing wrong with that. You know what you can and can't live with. No one else should tell you differently. In the end all that matters is what YOU can accept.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07