It is also interesting to see how we surround ourselves with people that support us doing what is right or what is wrong. People seem to attract others that just validate our current state of mind and run from the people that want to challenge us to do what is right.
Run is right. That's exactly what H did...and is still doing. I guess it's human nature to want to be surrounded by people that support us, but the wise ones will take into consideration other people's thoughts even when they aren't your own. Our WAS have not done this. I think it is extreme to take it the level that my H has. He has traded in me and anyone in his own family who won't accept OW with open arms with OW's family and new friends. Conveniently, I think a lot of his new friends are divorced and OW's parents are divorced also. He is on the path to his second divorce and he hasn't even finalized the first one.
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I do think she got sucked into something bad and evil. Now she is trying to take some control, unfortunately for me it is the easy way out.
Couldn't have said it better myself...seems to be an all too familiar comment from us LBS.
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For me I am still saddened by all of this, though I feel like I have accepted it for what it is and am OK with it. I still do not know what life is going to look like for me in the future, but I am going to jump in head first and see how it plays itself out.
It seems we that we are on the same page....exactly how I feel too. I wish I could look ahead 5 years from now...then maybe I would see why this all happened. Things are starting to turn around a bit for me. I feel like God is really helping me out...things keep going good for me...while H's life just keeps getting worse and worse. Keep praying and things will turn around for you too.
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