Why do these things happen VII

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You're a better man than I. Adultery is a line I don't allow crossed.

I am not a better man Jazz. I have a couple of ways that I have been looking at it, tell me if this does make any sense.

1st, I know for a fact when we got together in the beginning I was her first in everything but kissing and groping. I do have to wonder what I would do if we were separated and I had never been with another women, would I want to find out, I think so in a way.
2nd, we are separated and she was not seeing anyone when this happened, this has happened since the separation, I have to let her do what she has to do for now.
3rd, if that is what it takes for her to go through the motions of realizing she has a great guy in her husband, then so be it.

Now on the other hand if it happened while we were still together and living in the same house, I would throw all 3 of those excuses out and just go file myself.