Thanks mkultra. I am talking to the C today about how to protect DD from this decision. I did explain to her last night in very simple terms that H needed a place to stay for awhile however it was not for good and wherever he was, H loved her. H and I actually had a really good conversation last night and he said he is so confused about everything he couldn't even say if we were over for good or not. Trying not to read too much into that!! Right now, I am focusing on trying to be a good friend versus a nagging wife and also continuing keeping me looked after. I know having him in the house will not be easy from an emotional standpoint but it gives us such a great chance to communicate, me to show him unconditional support and at least know I am doing something right and good. I also am taking comfort in that for whatever reason he choose to come home and not to the OW or a hotel or whatever. Trying not to read too much but baby steps in the right direction must mean something!
