Ok, but don't play this surgery thing up too much either!!! Not being mean, just honest. What I mean is don't put everything out on the table NOW because you are having surgery and *something may happen.* She needs to want to work this out b/c she wants to work it out.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10