Why do these things happen VII

[789]

So I am not going to change, I am still letting go and not putting much into anything at this point. As I said in another thread about where a line is drawn, mine was when the judge said so or she became slutty, or was pregnant. Being separated, I for some reason do not see it as an affair in the terms it is meant. If her going out and finding that the grass is not greener is what it takes for her to wake up and see what we can have and for us to eventually work it out, so be it.