You sound great, Jen. Having to separate actions for ME, because *I* need them and H's reaction to the way I did them in the past has been an issue for me, too. I realized there were things I was doing/not doing b/c of H, and in the longterm, that's just not healthy. I've put some boundaries into place, making sure H knows it's not about him, it's about me.

You sound just wonderful. And thanks for the feedback on my thread...your wisdom is always much appreciated!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!