Best of luck to you on your new journey. I found your last posts to be full of insight, particularly the one where you admitted that "because she loved ME" was part of her allure. I see that in my own H and it has taken a loooooong time for me to grow into a person who is lovABLE and lovING. I pray that your wife, whether or not she comes to her senses wrt your M, is able to grow up finally.
