Well, the only reason he came back last night is because he couldn't continue to pay for the hotel ($125/night!), and he had nowhere else to go. He actually asked me if he could stay and then said it was better than sleeping in his car. He told me last night that he was probably going to move in with a buddy of his that needed a roomate. He says there is no hope and I should just accept it. I feel like if he moves out it is over. Although, I did tell him that maybe he should leave and make sure this is what he wants.
By the way, I checked again later last night and she had called him two more times and he called her once. So I don't think it was to tell him to come back to me. I know it doesn't do any good to check, but I just can't seem to help myself.
I know we were young when we got together, but I didn't marry him until I felt like I was ready and I had done what I wanted to do. If I would have agreed, he would have married me three years earlier. This would have meant that I would have had to stop what I was doing and quit school to go where he was and be with him and I wasn't willing to do that. I didn't want any regrets. I didn't want to resent him for anything. Now it seems that he didn't really think about all those things before marrying me.
