Dave,
Keep it cool man! You are in control of the entire situation right now. You are a rock; she is a whirling, swirling, chaotic mess. Every time she sees you, the stable, quiet calmness that surrounds you, she is drawn back to you.

My only advice is do not act like you put 2 seconds of thought into the sleeping arrangements. Whatever else you do will be fine as long as you do not show any reaction to the outcome. (sleep on the couch, at her place, in bed with her, it does not matter either way).

SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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