When I go out without him (which is all I have done since he decided he was leaving) he will ask where I am going; be surprised at my answer; ask how it went the next time he sees me; and smile when I say it was fun.
He found an apartment and signed a lease yesterday. *sigh* I know that I 'knew' he was going, but somehow that made it more real. He is pretty excited.
We had a smallish relationship talk where he said that he didn't see us working out, but he'll keep an open mind. That it would be best if we could work it out; we'll just have to see how he feels once he gets out there.
He said that he "wanted to take care of [himself]"-cook his own meals, whatever-that he had gotten complacent. I said I thought we were *partners* and as such, he was earning the $ and I was taking care of his needs at home. Who complains about getting really nice home cooked meals?
He had to sign a six month lease (we had said it would be a 3 month separation) so at first I was kinda taken aback, but then I said "Well, that's okay. You don't want to make a decision until the novelty wears off and 3 months might not be long enough. Besides, you're going to have to really work to come back to me." and he says "You better stick to that." Is this guy weird or what?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
