This has been the toughest month of my entire life, as I am sure you can relate. I still wear my ring despite her behavior, and the fact that she left me to clean up the entire place by myself, including EVERY gift I have ever given to her, evry item we accumulated together, and every item that bears memories to our life together. I am starting to get a little p*&sed, but trying so hard to hold onto my forgiveness and respect for her. She has a history of leaving relationships and friendships when the going gets tough, and she has an amazing ability to block out what she doesn't want to confront. If you or anyone can make any suggestions about what to do from here, it would be much appreciated. I've decided to put all of our things in storage and get a little apt. in a neighboring town, a little further away from where we are likely to bump into each other. Not sure if I would be wiser to do that or to get a place closer to where she hangs out, but at this point it's what I feel is best for me. Here is my original post, for some background on the entire sitch:
