Originally Posted By: NikkiB


jak
haha it's actually good the poodle hair is out. Makes her easier to spot and avoid since NO ONE else has that style anymore.

Thanks for posting. Hope to see you over here soon!! I will try to check out your thread today.


Nikki,

Good for you, And how awful for anyone who has to look at that on a daily basis. ;\)

I do hope to be over here soon. I know I should be here now but I feel that if I find nothing for OW on her B-Day Aug. 23 that i can do that.

I know, no snooping but I feel that H promised me nothing is going on and I am going to make sure that there is nothing.I have had all the BS I am going to take and I am not going to take any more!

What if I find something you ask? Then I call my attorney and have him send H a letter with my intentions. I think this will put the fear of god in him since I know he does not want D. I am ready for a D if need be so it is not an empty ultimatum. Although I honestly do not think it will come to that.

I told H in a letter I wrote to him that I would not tolerate any more interaction than is neccesary(as in cards gifts and talking about anything other than work) and I mean it.

I get what you mean about blind trust. I can assure you that will never happen in my house again. Trust yes but never blindly again.

Have you told him the "right thing to do" would be to make him happy in his life? Then if H is still choosing to be with you, it is because he wants you.

Last edited by jak58; 07/25/07 01:11 PM.

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