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Good Morning,

That's sounds about Right(being a little more demanding). I think Im the same as your wife in that aspect. If there is no challenge Im not interested. Was like that with my other bf's not that there was so many . I don't see anything wrong with that. It will keep her on her toes so to speak. What kind of letter to her are you writing? I definately think when your ready you should send it, sometimes it is easier to write things down on paper then it is to say them, plus you forget things, at least I do.

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tired,

I think I am going to write my thoughts down but I will read them to her. I have written letters in the past and have sent them. So I have communicated 1/2 way. She has NEVER sent me a letter. She has written some beautiful things in cards to me. (I have every card she has sent me) but have not received a card in over a year.
I need to change by being there personally when I convey my thoughts to her.

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It surely means that I don't know
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Yes If you can do that great! That's nice she's sent you cards. My H used to do that, doesn't anymore, I'm lucky if I get a bday from him anymore. We've haven't hardly talked in 2 days. He didn't even say goodbye to me this morning. I had a dr's appointment yesterday, didn't even ask me how it went.

He just doesn't have time for me in his life anymore. Just called down to me before he left and said he needed socks... *how romantic*


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Hey Tired,

You sound depressed today, I am reading this E-Book "Journey" It's about finding your purpose in life. Sounds like it might be something that might help you. It is written like a story instead of just a "self help book". If you go to my profile and E-mail me I can try to send you a copy. I sent it to one of my other friends but they could not open it. maybe you will be able to.

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Hey there,

I actually did send you a email, it was from : tem420@gmail.com.
If you could send it would be great. Its just hard for me to get a moment for myself these days.

Yup today is such a great day. Hes very distant. Im tired of feeling this way.


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Tired,

Check you e-mail

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Husband,

Didn't get it yet, but I don't know how long it takes to get email from this address..



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tired,
Your mail got kicked back.

E mail me at: Manuelm1@comcast.net and I can just use return mail

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Done!


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Husband,

Good luck I know that you will be just fine. I'll be thinking of you. keep us informed.

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