Yes If you can do that great! That's nice she's sent you cards. My H used to do that, doesn't anymore, I'm lucky if I get a bday from him anymore. We've haven't hardly talked in 2 days. He didn't even say goodbye to me this morning. I had a dr's appointment yesterday, didn't even ask me how it went.
He just doesn't have time for me in his life anymore. Just called down to me before he left and said he needed socks... *how romantic*
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.