Separated from WAW

[dlt1]

Thanks guys, it really helps to hear from others. I hate the idea of being separated, but it was the only thing I could do at the time. It's very difficult to give her space, but I have been able to so far. Stopped by the house Monday to give her something for C and grabbed a few items. Asked how her day was, and then got out of there. Coudl tell she was uncomfortable with me there. Her C was last night, she had asked me to come by and feed the dogs b/c she thought she may be late from work and would have to go straight to C. So I was able to hang out at the house and do a few things, fix a shelf and burn some branches we cut down earlier this month. She ended up coming home first as I was catching a breather and reading over the "languages' book I had given her. We both laughed b/c I was a sweaty mess just standing there in the middle of the kitchen. Didn't feel like she was as annoyed. I got my things together and said "have a good time!" regarding C. Which, of course, sounds stupid now. he gave me a very strabnge look, so I said it's not that bad, I'm sure she'll be fine. That came out a bit better! Anyway, C was 7:30 and she was to schedule the follow up (both to go to that one). I texted her at 10 asking what she thought and thanks for going. Have not heard back. Another day of waiting and hope she calls tonight. I want to call, but fighting the urge to pressue and pursue.
I really hope the next C directs us to work on things together. I'm very frustrated being apart, chaging things in my life, but she does not see them. When we are talking, should I talk about my changes? Seems like that is not the right away, she needs to see action, but can't b/c we're apart. Ugh!
We are supposed to have another 'date' Friday, my suggestion at the end of Sunday. I'm thinking of dinner at thsi restaurant on the lake that she likes. Not sure if that is too romantic? Would also like to go to movie, but that's a long time of no talk or action. Any other ideas that garner positive responses?
Thanks again for the responses, I hope to contribute more as I go through this, with a good story at the end!