Just reading your stitch. Im sorry you think she hates you and I'm also sorry that you have to deal with this A. Some of you hear are so strong to want to stick it out and try to get your M on track. I too have been married for 16 years.. although my H didn't actually Cheat (Posted naked pic of himself on aduldfriendfinder.com... and other things similar to that.. I don't think I could take him back, actually I know I couldn't. Even as much as I would want to keep my family together, I know how much the other hurt me so, I couldn't bear it...
So I commend you. Im worn out with my H needeness...sp? While I am not getting any of my needs filled.
I hope you find peace and I hope she wakes up and realizes what she is losing.
Blessings~
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.