And I did NOT mean (as Sunny is suggesting( that you will be gettting any other type of blow-up appliance!
Still and Sunny That made me laugh ! Brilliant. How much wine have you ladies had ?? Its excellent that you to are getting in some good times.
I think I will claim ownership of the Bed and W can figure out what she is going to do .
I got home tonight and W had gone home but had prepared dinner and done the washing. I am sure from some things she has said that there is no long term plan towards divorce right now. And as I quietly get on with my life it may be making her uneasy. W sent an E Mail to my sister in response to my sister sending me a card of support , long story but she wrote
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that it takes two to ruin a marriage , if it is at all finished!!
I guess in her mind its not over yet. She has dropped hints lately as well , for example talking about a friend who left her H for 7 months then went back to her H . I have been slowly changing things around the house, quite supple but W notices and its sort of like claiming back the balance of power.
What I am doing seems to be working so I am sticking with it , My sitch is so much more stable and hopeful than a lot of others but I am keeping my expectations low and acting as if I am getting on with my life.
