Well - you are married and you are in a partnership. That means you have a duty to be honest and to work through your issues together.

If you don't feel you can talk about these things with your wife, you need to find a pro-marriage marriage counsellor and use that process to communicate with your wife what's going on for you. She probably has no idea how serious it is for you.

Her weight gain is an indicator that she is unhappy too - you don't just gain weight for no reason, it's usually because of something going on in your life that makes you feel you have to take the pain away by eating/drinking/whatever your poison is.

Good luck - take action. There is still time to get on track before you become parents.

Last edited by Walkingback; 07/25/07 07:20 AM.
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