I think that sounds like a wonderful start. perhaps she is prepared to rebuild trust with you. Perhaps she realizes that you are the best role model for your kids since you have remained calm by NOT packing her things and getting a restraining order or demanding that the OM stop being her friend, (which he should, but that needs to be her decision).
I have been thinking about the OM scenarios. Some men may have a hero complex. I think my H does. He takes in every type of stray animal. He cared for me as a teen. I have seen him be a caretaker to gain some type of confidence. He no longer has that in our relationship. I have become independent of him and anything he could offer. I could totally see my H leaving us and finding a needier other single mom with kids in a flash. I always thought these OP were scum with low self esteem, now I think maybe some have a hero complex and are looking for women to save from unhappy sitches.
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
