You sound like a good caring wife. I hope he appreciates that sooner than later. I am sure he will some day. I just hope it is soon. What does the coonselor say about the affect on your DD? If my H were to sleep in my/our home, the kids would be elated like it was a slumber party, but then they would be disheartened once he moved out again. His aunt is also ready to kick him off her couch. My H is a vagabond with little money right now. I would hate for him to move home out of poverty but I would also hate for him to stay homeless to prove a stubborn point. Those OW are so irrelevant. Spirals are bad and we all have them. Reach for DR when you get an attack of the negative spirals.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."