She does not even sound stable enough to make these decisions. Can you sit on it for a while without pressing on? An pressure may chase her further away since she has stress from starting a new business. All the extra stress may create resentment toward you and your dreams about the future. You may still have a chance to have a happy steady future together so why blow it? Keep on DBing for your D. I am also in a strange sitch regarding my house. It is in my name but I live in CA. My mom helped me with the deposit. My H is temporarily homeless and has no money. He has no interest in money. I do not want to talk to a lawyer because I do not want to send the message that we are getting a divorce.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."