I know, I know...snooping is bad....but I did it..

[mkultra]

Umm, this is probably not DBing but you texted her pointing out that her friendship was with a married man. That is really not appropriate even if she was just trying to help him with his job. People find it hard to be professional and become friends. It is innappropriate for married folks to form friendships with coworkers of the opposite sex. A lot of young people think it is OK because they remember how it is to be platonic. Sex is not the point. It is about draining communicaion from the primary relationship. Why should my H joke and tell his dreams to a coworker when he is supposed to share with his spouse? Sorry for the soap box. That OW needed to hear it from you so why wait? You go Girl! Nip it in the bud. My auntes in their seventies are always telling me to chase away any woman who would dare bat their eyelashes at my H. I thought they were old fashioned but they have been married forever! I do not have a jealous bone! They are probably right and maybe my H would have appreciated me peeing on my territory! Is that crazy? The only bad thing is that they conspire but id they are moral at all, she will feel stupid.