I don't want to jack KB's thread so I will try to be brief. I am in the Inland Empire...so not too terribly far from you. I want to read more of your posts. I can use all of the inspiration I can get at this point. I have done many things wrong in the last 5 months since my H left. I have pushed to get answers, threatened a D, had R talks, cried, begged, everything. I knew I wasn't supposed to do these things, but I did them anyway because ,I believe, my brain has difficulty with anything illogical. Sandi and Happy Again's posts seemed help me be able to make more sense of the MLCer.
Unfortunately, my H and I are further apart then ever now. He told me last week that he thinks he can file now but then makes no effort that I know of to do anything. We have very minimal contact now (a rare email or text usually only business). He seems fine to not make any movement...and if I push to have movement, I push him away. I have made a goal of backing off completely for a month or so and just see what happens.
Any advice or words of encouragement would be deeply appreciated.
