I hear that. That really would be sad. But they have to get over the hurt and bitterness and everything else. Which they can do if they choose too.

My SIL told me tonight my H at some point will realize he is happy here and that he'll be miserable if he chooses a D.

W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07