If all this isn't a screaming cry for relationship education in High School or something, I don't know what is.
Funny how we require a semester of drivers education, a driving test, and a written test before we'll give someone a license to drive, but getting married and having kids requires nothing more than a deadly mix of idealism, ignorance, and stupidity.
Originally Posted By: StupidRomeo2
After her last email I replied to her in an upset tone. I basically told her while she talks about the loss and such she's still making excuses and not willing to do any work. I told her "You can try and look for me when you're ready to be a real woman. A real woman who's family is her kingdom, the kingdom she protects with her life. Right now you're running away like a frightened deer and I'm done chasing you." - that was the harshest thing I've said to her since all this time.
Can't say as I blame you. I'd have skipped the middle part if it were me, but the excuses/unwillingness to work point is valid and I think she needs to hear you're done chasing (and I think you should be, too!).
Originally Posted By: StupidRomeo2
I know its harsh and goes against DBing....
Perhaps, but even Christ threw the moneychangers out of the temple and called the Pharisees a "brood of vipers" (not exactly a compliment). While these were not a common occurrence, I think they illustrate that while you should go the extra mile, there are limits to that. Sometimes you just have to call a spade, a spade...and I can't think of a way to do that without sounding harsh.
