One day at a time

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Don't take what I am doing as giving up, I am just letting go and not worrying. I know if it was my grandparent or parent, the last thing I would be thinking about is my relationship. You are across town and grieving seperatly because of the circumstances you are presently in, him coming back and opening up for the wrong circumstances would not help in the long run. It will have to be at his time and way.

Positives are that you are going with him to the hospital, you did talk some, even if he is saying he shouldn't, well he is so that is something. Your not going to find a BIG positive right now so go for those small ones.