imLIN:
Hey given what you said, I am surprised you didn't figure the puzzle out!!! It's funny (but not really) how these MLC's take over those that we love. We maintain composure (mostly) while they act up and act out. I often feel sorry for my wife. it's like she is possessed or something...

Anyway, here is my latest dilemma: I am doing a GAL activity with my three kids tomorrow. I was at home telling them about it, saying it will be just the four of us, and WAS fires out: "Well thanks for inviting me!!" I was struck dumb. I had no reply, she just turned and walked away.

I guess no reply was better than a bad one (the bad one being "Listen, I know that your lover is coming into town tonite (he lives 300 miles away), so I have no doubt that any free time you have tomorrow will be spent naked in his hotel room.") I DID NOT say that (she does not know that I know he is coming into town). Any suggestions on how to reply next time (there will be MANY next times)...?

Mark


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9