I am not sure how she reacted to my filing...or if she even knew I did...they broke things off midway through the D process so she was out of the picture as far as I know when I called it off...
I do know that he was drinking a lot and going out to Karaoke at bars...so no telling how much "flirting" was going on...
The OW mainly wanted out after they couldn't find a way to live in the same place because both had "obligations"...and I sort of killed things when I called her and let her have it...the first time I thought it was only an EA...when I found out he/she lied to me I really let go and she hung up on me...then I called and left some not so kind messages although I didn't call her anything she wasn't...OH...and it was her best friend's husband who confirmed everything for me...he said his wife would probably not be happy about it and would probably end the friendship with her...so who knows how all of this affected her life (like I really cared)...but he said pretty much after that things started to cool because she felt guilty (again, like I cared how she felt after she KNEW he was a married man with kids)
Wait until a week before final...and just ask if she would like to halt things for now...just to give you both time...what could it hurt???
