Ok...now I get it that it is their initials...I thinking too deep...
BTW...I did have a WAS/MLC-H who acted like a rebelious teenager except that he bought a BMW convertable with all the extras and had NO INCOME!!!...how mature is that...so it finally got repo'd when they called me and we managed together to figure out where he was living...
He also dressed wayyyyy to young, grew a hideously immature goatee that he had to color....along with his hair and mustache...which all became all different colors!!!
So trust me...I can relate...but thanks for explaining that for me...now thinking back to being 13-15 I remember doing those things...sad that your wife is doing it now...hopefully she will recover