Hi Big Tuna,

It's so nice to meet you. I agree with you about Old Fool. He has been a huge support system to me and to others. I'm not sure if he realizes it.

My ex also hasn't found the grass to be greener on the other side. He finally had to relent and move in with his parents. His lease expired, and he found himself homeless and penniless. Do you know that I actually felt sorry for him? Thank goodness my brother/wife are staying with me cuz I might have invited him to stay with me.

My very best to you, and I hope we get to "talk" again.

alamogirl


Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07