Tyler - don't think I've posted to you before but I've read your threads off and on. I'm so sorry to hear about all you're going through. You sound really good in spite of it all.

About your kids... is there some way you can discuss just this component of it with your W?? Could you both agree on some way to explain it to the kids that doesn't involve the blaming? I am just thinking that deep down your D6 is probably thinking that if she only tries hard enough, does things right, she can fix it. (on top of the blaming you, she's probably beating herself up for all her pleading not working). I don't have kids and have no idea HOW you'd go about this, but I would hope your W cares at least enough about them to agree to something...


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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