Thanks, Strange, pulling for you too. If you want your W to know that you're not going to be a pain in the yin-yang, just tell her like you said it here: "I'm not going to make it hard or resist it."
Sounds like you still want this to work out, letting her think that you're indifferent to the D seems counterproductive to me. My 2 pennies and I'm shutting up now.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY