Originally Posted By: sadhearted
Yeah listen and validate.


I am finally doing.

Originally Posted By: sadhearted
Me and various other people want to just shake my H. What he perceives as BIG problems are not that big and if he could just let go of the past and try again we could get this right.


Oh believe me, I want to also, I know it would work if I could get away with it, but that is the problem. She wouldn't let me get away with it so why bother.
We/I had a major problem and I realize that. Now just for her to realize it is another story. I cannot change her mind or way of thinking I will let her do that on her own.


M 41
W 33
S8
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Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07