? I have not really started to think about the two of them and the deed in great detail until last night. I started to think what if she went down on him. That's something I don't think i would want to continue in the relationship after. I know what we're trying to accomplish here but am i reaching with this one. Is that right to say that? To give that sort of an ultimatum. If you did this I don't think I could proceed to work things out if we ever got to that place.